If you grew
up in the age before video, you were shown what to do by someone who had already
mastered the skill. Patiently or not, that person gave you the steps to follow,
and then allowed you to try. Maybe they moved your arms and legs, or maybe they
just talked you through it.
You failed
at first, didn’t you? You fell. The ball wobbled and landed nowhere near where
you were trying to throw it. You struck out—a lot. You got the dance steps
wrong, and out of sequence.
Your
teacher showed you again. And you failed again. This process repeated itself,
for hours, days, or weeks, leaving you frustrated and feeling as if you’d never
“get it.”
Then one
day as you were practicing, after a number of repetitions over the days or
weeks, the activity fell into place as if you’d always known how. Once you knew
it, you could never again not know
it. A feeling of euphoria washed over you. Your teacher celebrated with you.
Maybe you even skipped off to teach someone else.
The next
time you went to learn a new skill, you knew it might take some time. You
instinctively knew that you would need to practice to get better, and this
knowledge boosted your self-confidence. Because what you wanted, now, more than anything, was that euphoria of getting it right.
Now think
about, at around that same age, how you learned not to touch a hot stove.
Was there
any practice involved in learning this important lesson? Not only did no one
demonstrate how to avoid the stove, you were actively warned against practice for this task.
How quickly
did the learning occur? If you are like most people, you only needed one
repetition—just one—for this lesson to sink in.
That is
what is known as “one-trial learning.” It’s behavior change that takes place
extremely quickly, typically because the consequences are painful, scary,
harmful, dire—or all of these.
What does
this have to do with dogs?
Dogs, like
most social beings, learn in many of the same ways we do: by practice, and
repetition, and by consequence (reward or punishment). Every behavior has a
consequence, and how the animal perceives that consequence determines whether
the animal will repeat (practice) the behavior. If the consequence pleases the
dog, he will practice more, and gradually improve to mastery. If the
consequence is displeasing, he might attempt the behavior a few more times,
then give up. If the consequence is scary, painful, or dire, he will cease the
behavior—usually after one trial.
So what
does that mean for us, as dog owners and teachers?
Why, when
teaching their dogs new behaviors, do so many owners assume that the dog should
know what to do after only one, three, or five successful repetitions? They weren’t
riding a bike as well as Lance Armstrong after one attempt, but they feel like
Fluffy should “get it” immediately. Or, even worse, they assume Fluffy “knows” it and is just
disobeying to spite them! (This is definitely incorrect. Owners often assume knowledge on the dog's part where it does not exist. Do not fall into this trap.)
Maybe this
expectation stems from our “want it now, get it now” culture. We are an impatient species these days, and we suffer for it.
Wherever it
comes from, it’s not helpful.
No good
training uses dire (scary, harmful, painful) consequences to teach new
behaviors like sitting, coming when called, or lying down. When we want a
behavior to continue, we use pleasant consequences after it occurs (or we help
it to occur). Since we are not using dire consequences, we will need multiple
repetitions to get the dog to a place of mastery. These multiple repetitions
should happen over a period of days, weeks, even months. There is no humane way
to get “one-trial learning” of a positive behavior like “come.” It takes the
time it takes, with multiple reps in “easy” locations, then in different
locations under different conditions, so that the dog understands.
Also: your dog enjoys those euphoria moments, too! When he gets it right and you rejoice in his success, your bond grows.
This is
textbook learning theory, and there aren’t any shortcuts that work. Dog
training takes patience, just like learning to throw a ball. Practice daily, reward
small successes, and give it time to work, just like your parents, teachers,
coaches and friends did with you.
The
relationship that blossoms with your dog may surprise you.